
“The pursuit, even of the best things, ought to be calm and tranquil.”
- Cicero
There is a myth floating around that only those who are extremely vigilant about their eating habits and exercise are capable of living healthy lifestyles. As a fitness professional, I’m expected to lead by example, and I can’t tell you how many times a friend will ask incredulously, “You drink coffee? Isn’t it bad for you?” or “You don’t go to the gym everyday?”
I tend to laugh it off. I’m not one to be bothered by the judgment of others. However, such comments encourage me to think about what it means to be truly healthy and fit. I also wonder if others hesitate to change their habits because they operate under the unfortunate misconception that getting fit is an “all or nothing” endeavor.
Moderation
I’m a fan of moderation. I enjoy going out for a couple of drinks and have been known to indulge in a late-night burrito from time to time. Admitting this makes me a target for friends or acquaintances who question my integrity as a personal trainer. I welcome interrogation because I believe it helps others realize that a personal trainer is not a genetic marvel with an iron-clad will. I am a real person just like you. I get cravings. I sometimes give in to them. I don't go overboard. I also don't berate myself for it.
My vision of health and fitness encompasses everything – from being able to execute a certain number of push-ups, to successfully completing a mud run injury-free, to relaxing at the beach. I strive to maintain a high quality of life, which means I allow myself to enjoy some guilty little pleasures. For example, am I willing to sacrifice sushi night so I can get a more defined midsection? No. I know many people who are capable of giving up foods they love to maintain a six pack, but it’s not how I like to live my life. Everyone is different.
You get what you give
A mentor of mine and one of the top trainers in the country is often heard saying the phrase, “10 in, 10 out.” He uses this as a motivational tool for those who might not be performing to the best of their abilities. Essentially, this means that if you want 100% success, you have to put in 100% percent effort. In simpler terms, you get what you give. It is common sense: you can’t go for a leisurely half-hour walk then eat a high-calorie meal and expect to lose weight. “Offsetting” that high-calorie meal with a diet drink isn’t going to help either.
One of the greatest pitfalls among exercisers is that the perceived effort is much higher than the actual effort. So, when results are stunted, greater potential for burnout occurs. The truth is good quality nutrition and moderate- to vigorous-intensity exercise most days per week is required to make body composition improvements. If you find you’re not achieving the results you want, take a good, honest look at the effort you’re putting in. Does your heart rate elevate during exercise? Do you sweat? Are you meeting the minimum recommendation of at least five moderate- to high-intensity exercise sessions per week? Have you reduced overall fat and sugar intake? Have you cut back on portion sizes? Answer these questions as truthfully as possible and you’ll likely discover your primary roadblock.
It’s also important to consider what you want to achieve and how much effort you’re willing to put in. A person whose goal is to make the next Abercrombie & Fitch photo shoot will have to work a lot harder (hours of gym time coupled with near starvation) than someone looking to drop a few dress sizes. Be realistic about your goals and you’ll be less disappointed.
The 80/20 rule
A coworker of mine--who is also a marathoner--swears by a variation of the 80/20 rule. The rule is simple: make healthy nutrition (that includes food and drink) choices 80 percent of the time, and allow yourself to make less healthy choices 20 percent of the time. For example, during the week she is extra vigilant about what she eats and has iron-strong resolve when company pot luck time comes around. During the weekend she allows herself to indulge a bit in the things she enjoys. She doesn’t go on a long weekend bender, though she takes pleasure in a slice of chocolate cake or a few glasses of wine. Some might even employ this rule on a daily basis. The point is the 80/20 rule allows you to satisfy cravings for the things you enjoy without feeling guilty about it. The 80/20 rule gives you an “out.” The important thing to remember is that you have to get right back on the nutrition wagon as soon as possible.
Exercise your moderation
One of the biggest deterrents to exercise is the notion that you have to get to the point of regurgitation to know it’s working. While an Iron Man competitor might push his body to the limits, the average health-minded individual need not work to such an extent to see results. Also, there are so many methods for getting in shape--and enjoying it--and they don’t necessarily have to involve muscle-splitting body building routines or 15-mile treadmill runs. If you always enjoyed riding a bike as a kid, make that your primary form of exercise. Throw in some squats and push-ups, and you’ve got yourself a well-rounded routine.
Don’t be afraid to try new things. A good friend of mine discovered running two years ago and now you’d have to break his legs to keep him from it. We also live in a 31-flavors type of society which means that exercise options are abundant. For instance, the Wave House Athletic Club offers a wide array of classes such as Zumba, yoga, kickboxing and more. There’s no harm in giving them all a try. Some you’ll enjoy; others you won’t. The important thing is to keep trying, and to know that you need to experience some sort of challenge to make improvements in your fitness level.
Living a fit and healthy lifestyle doesn’t have to involve only eating carrots, lettuce and soy products, and working out so hard that you can’t move for two weeks. Making positive, reasonable changes in your current routine will help you maintain a program for the long haul. After all, health and fitness is a journey, not a destination.
Ryan Halvorson is a personal trainer at the Wave House Athletic Club, associate editor for IDEA Health & Fitness Association, and regular author and speaker on the topics of health and fitness.

